Greetings! We
hope that you will explore Journeying
Beyond 's pages on Death Midwifery
services, and 'end of life' (EOL)
and Advance-care Plannng consultations,
in Victoria, B.C. All of the
pages are listed on the left menu, as well
as at the top and bottom of each page.
You can get more information about Death
Midwifery and Home Funerals by visiting
the CINDEA
pages on The
Pan-Death Movement,
Death
Midwifery, and the Post-death
Care/Home Funerals.
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Journeying
Beyond
's Death Midwifery services include 'end
of life' consultations (comprehensive
Advance Directives and Representation Agreements,
as well as basic information on Power of
Attorney/etc. documents), support
for the Death Journeyer and their families
throughout the pan-death process, funeral
plans, funeral and/or memorial celebrant
services, and initial grief counselling.
'Home funeral' services including
an educational workshop "By
My Own Heart and Hands" (see
dates below) reviewing
all of the practical elements of post-death
care, necessary paperwork, and final disposition
arrangements.
The term "pan-death" refers to
the whole process, pre/during/post death
including education/information on
post-death care at home and required documentation,
which are often referred to as a "home
funeral". The acronym
'DWENA' implies any and all options for
'Deathcare Wholistic, Ecological,
and/or Natural Alternatives'. Please
check out our new By
My Own Heart and Hand home funerals
workshop
page.
Journeying
Beyond services include support
to Death Journeyers and their families through
an 'elective death' choice of MAiD (Medical
Aid in Dying) or VSED (Voluntary
Stopping Eating and Drinking). We
cannot provide medical support; but will
provide basic or access information, and
emotional and/or ceremonial support.
If
you are interested in Journeying
Beyond 's Death Midwifery &
ACP/EOL planning services in Victoria, B.C.,
or wish more information about these and
related services,
please contact Pashta via email
or call 250-383-4065
(available by phone,
email or Skype).
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Workshops
and Other Events
The fee is $300 but there is a discount of $25 if you sign up before the end of April 2024. More information is available on CINDEA's BMOHAH page and Journeying Beyonds' By My Own Heart and Hand page.
"Returning
to a Natural Ending"
and 'What's
in it for me'
Power Point presentations
These 2-hour
presentations address Death Midwifery, home
funerals, and green burial/disposition options. They
are available (by donation)
for any group of any size in Victoria, or
via Zoom. Please
contact
us if you are interested
in a presentation for your group. Three-in-one
sheet flyers available in PDF
format.
Legacy
Websites
Pashta
really enjoys building simple legacy websites
that is, websites of your own or a loved
ones' art or artisan work, history, writings,
etc. that last pre and post death. This
can be a delightful project, recapturing
the richness of a life lead
whther you
are reviewing your own life's accomplishments
or paying honour to those of a loved one.
You can see the one she created for her
mother at https://mary-giordano-art.ca.
She uses New Google Sites,
which are free
but
you can also choose to buy a domain for
around $17 a year. The
cost to build the site depends on how many
hours it takes, but is likely to cost between
$50 and $300.
Post-death
Directives
CINDEA
has created a
23-page Post-death Directive covering everything
that needs to be addressed for post-death
decisions
except for
wills and legal/financial matters. Please
see the CINDEA
homepage for
photos of the front cover and the Table
of Contents. The
Post-death Directive is digital, signable
in Adobe Reader (or other
similar readers), and costs $22.
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By
My Own Heart and Hand
basics in home funerals
workshop
CINDEA
and Journeying Beyond
co-sponsored the By
My Own Heart and Hand
basics in home funerals
workshop, has been training people
to do home funerals since 2014. This
training session has been formerly
offered in person, then online
during COVID, and now revamped to be an online program. It will now be
accessible to all Canadians and others
across the world.
A
trick for easily washing the hair
This
introductory workshop is primarily
intended to help families in preparing
for, and planning, a home funeral. However,
it is also an opportunity for alternative
death-care practitioners to better
understand the basics of a home funeral,
as it might relate to the experience
of their future clients as
well as being the practicum for Pan-death
Guide students.
Navigating
a staircase with a casket
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Safely
rolling the body onto its side
Washing
the back of the body
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Testimonials
My
family used Pashta MaryMoon's
services before and after
the recent passing of our
mother. While
Pashta provides many services,
for us, she was a support
for both my mother and us
children before the passing
as well as after. With
her help we planned both my
mom's woodland green burial
funeral for close friends
and family, as well as her
ceremony open to everyone
later that afternoon. Pashta
was the master of ceremonies
for both events.
Death
is not something I had very
much experience with before
my mother got ill. Pashta's
experience and level of comfort
with the dying process made
it easier for the entire family.
Her gentle nature
helped us plan and organize
an event no one looks forward
to. Her ability
to bring our family together
to organize in a way that
worked for everyone was amazing. The
support she showed my mom
in her final months was truly
a blessing. The
support she showed me as I
cared for my mom full-time
leading up to her death gave
me the strength and self belief
to realize that I could really
do this.
Pashta
has an amazing way with people. She
made an effort to get to know
as many friends and family
as possible before the passing
so she would be a familiar
face at the funeral she was
leading. The
funeral and Ceremony were
beautiful, personal and deeply
moving. Pashta's
kindness, support and help
let our family be at peace
before the passing and feel
taken care of after.
From
all of us we can't thank her
enough for everything and
would like to recommend her
for anyone looking for a similar
experience. (DS,
daughter)
Pashta's
wonderful, caring support
and amazing knowledge regarding
Home Funerals made our mother's
home funeral a very special
and intimate experience for
our family and friends. She
made herself available to
speak with other family members
who were struggling with the
concept of a home funeral.
Whenever there
were questions or concerns,
Pashta was always there with
her never ending compassion.
She has definitely supported
and guided our family to crossover
the threshold of death and
helped make it a beautiful,
accepting, natural and real
journey.
We
are very blessed and very
grateful for her making this
uncertain decision of doing
a home funeral an everlasting
final act of love for our
beloved mother that we will
always hold dear to our hearts.
After our mothers
celebration of life and cremation,
we all gathered and shared
our experiences. We
all expressed the same sentiments
of joy, love, amazement and
courage that we managed to
keep our mother at home and
be so comfortable with it.
Thank you infinitely
Pashta, (Deborah
Magdee and Family)
A
dear friend of our family
had passed away recently and
we were lucky enough to have
Pashta assist us with a home
funeral. In an
industry that usually blandly
genericizes the grieving process,
it was a privledge to have
Pashta's (and co.) warm personal
care and undeniable expertise
alieviate the mystery and
detachment that so many of
the other conventional services
can leave you feeling.
Her comprehensive and thorough
guidance disarmed our
what had been before
natural reluctance to be involved
with steps ordinarily only
relegated to a funeral home.
In its place, she provided
an environment so comfortable
that even our 13 year old
son participated. That
very involvement produced
a sense of closure that i
now truly do not believe is
possible with ANY other method.
(Sean P, PoA and friend)
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Pashta
MaryMoon, practitioner of death midwifery
for Journeying
Beyond, is also the director
of CINDEA.
More information about pan-death care is
available on that site, as well as seasonal
updates on Canadian development
contact
CINDEA to sign up for
the updates.
Please visit (click on the
name graphic below) for more information
on Death Midwifery in Canada.
Pashta
is a member of the National
Home Funeral Alliance
an extensive website addressing the
Home Funeral movement in the U.S.A.,
although providing listings for alternative
death-care practitioners both in the
U.S.A. and other countries
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Also,
a member of the Death
Doula Network International
(formerly of BC) which offers 2 discussion
groups and 2 workshops per month,
and membership directory, and death-related
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and
was awarded Best Business Person in
2021 for Esquimalt |
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Our
thanks to Skeena
web services for hosting this site
We also acknowledge the use of
the now defunct GRsitesprograms and
backgrounds.
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